"Paedophiles shape beauty standards" - Jameela Jamil
This week on The Tea, we sit down with one-woman powerhouse Jameela Jamil to dismantle some of the most deeply held assumptions about patriarchy, power, and who it truly serves.
In this urgent and unflinching episode, we challenge the idea that patriarchy primarily targets women. Jameela argues instead that it is a system engineered to subjugate men — for war, dangerous labour, and disposability — while convincing them that domination equals power. The real trick? Convincing men that women are the enemy, so they never see who is truly exploiting them.
And yet, the same system that treats men as expendable turns women into objects to be endlessly edited, infantilised, and erased.
Women are trained to erase themselves — surgically, financially, and emotionally — to serve predatory desires and impossible ideals. From fashion week to facelifts, the message is clear: disappear, stay small, stay young — or become irrelevant.
We unpack
⚖️ Patriarchy: an extraction system — men as disposable bodies for war and labour
⚖️ Division as strategy — why solidarity between men and women threatens power
⚖️ The beauty industry as erasure — self-mutilation sold as “self-care”
⚖️ Youthification & ageing — why self-knowing older women terrify patriarchy
⚖️ Economic resistance — how withholding money can reclaim power
⚖️ Self-knowledge as threat — when women know themselves, power is exposed
Jameela argues that, while power is slipping from our hands, a narrow window remains to reclaim it — not through placards alone, but through refusal, solidarity, and organised economic withdrawal.
👉 Subscribe for fearless, independent conversations: https://www.youtube.com/@UCT4kJCZyg26egbPAuJVj2kA
🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts.
#TheTeaWithMyriamFrancois #JameelaJamil #Patriarchy #Feminism #GenderPolitics #Capitalism #BeautyIndustry #Ageing #War #WomenEmpowerment #SocialJustice #Inequality #UKPolitics #USPolitics #EpsteinCase #Manosphere
Check out Love Welcomes, a social enterprise creating dignified, fairly paid work for refugee women rebuilding their lives. For 10% discount, enter THETEA10 at checkout!
🔗 https://www.lovewelcomes.org/?ref=MYRIAMFRANCOIS
Myriam Francois is wearing a Christmas jumper provided by Solidarity Sleigh: www.solidaritysleigh.com : 100% profits from these jumpers go directly to PAL Commission for War Crimes, Justice, Reparations & Return — one of the oldest Palestinian-led advocacy institutions in exile. They serve not only to secure accountability but full Palestinian rights, including getting land back. You can learn more about PAL Commission at: www.palcommission.com
AUDIO CREDITS
Presenter–Producer: Dr. Myriam François
Guest: Jameela Jamil
Senior Producer: Sara Farolfi
Producer: Nadège Bizimungu
Assistant Producer: Poppy Jacobs
Video Editor: Max Bubnov
An MPWR Productions show.
https://www.patreon.com/TheTeawithMyriamFrancois?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabkrbubUPKErSGVFGL5bzjQytkb9HanzeLQBUi8U-mU6g5aVSTqE5ej7sQ_aem_SO9ihK10zUz3TdyPOD2ngA
00:01:01 A global retreat – Authoritarianism and the rollback of rights
00:03:15 Choosing peace – Leaving Hollywood to find emotional fulfillment
00:08:41 Hate as a weapon – How politicians distract the working class
00:12:02 Re-humanizing Palestine – Restoring dignity and celebrating culture
00:17:35 Taking power back – Consumer boycotts vs. traditional protest
00:19:12 The AI crisis – Compliant robots and the manosphere
00:23:32 Submission vs. rebellion – Why patriarchy fears feminine energy
00:35:11 The "Trad-Wife" trap – Financial independence and household safety
00:45:09 The beauty standard – Mutilation, the "pedophile lens," and Botox
01:00:50 Reclaiming age – Resisting the erasure of older women
01:10:26 The soul of art – AI actors, human connection, and voting with your pound
01:13:06 Outro – Becoming an "unruly old bitch" and final reflections
'The Thumbnail image is AI generated'
Disclaimer:
The views and opinions expressed by the guest(s) on The Tea YouTube series and podcast are their own and do not reflect those of MPWR Productions or its licensees. The appearance of this YouTube programme and podcast on social media platforms does not imply endorsement by MPWR Productions. MPWR Productions disclaims any liability for damages arising from the use of the podcast and its recordings to the fullest extent permissible by law.
This video is intended for informational and commentary purposes only and reflects the personal opinions of the guest and creators. The inclusion of public figures or journalists is based on publicly available information and does not imply guilt or wrongdoing.
The views in this video do not establish a professional relationship with viewers and do not constitute legal, professional, or personal advice. Viewer discretion is advised.
In this urgent and unflinching episode, we challenge the idea that patriarchy primarily targets women. Jameela argues instead that it is a system engineered to subjugate men — for war, dangerous labour, and disposability — while convincing them that domination equals power. The real trick? Convincing men that women are the enemy, so they never see who is truly exploiting them.
And yet, the same system that treats men as expendable turns women into objects to be endlessly edited, infantilised, and erased.
Women are trained to erase themselves — surgically, financially, and emotionally — to serve predatory desires and impossible ideals. From fashion week to facelifts, the message is clear: disappear, stay small, stay young — or become irrelevant.
We unpack
⚖️ Patriarchy: an extraction system — men as disposable bodies for war and labour
⚖️ Division as strategy — why solidarity between men and women threatens power
⚖️ The beauty industry as erasure — self-mutilation sold as “self-care”
⚖️ Youthification & ageing — why self-knowing older women terrify patriarchy
⚖️ Economic resistance — how withholding money can reclaim power
⚖️ Self-knowledge as threat — when women know themselves, power is exposed
Jameela argues that, while power is slipping from our hands, a narrow window remains to reclaim it — not through placards alone, but through refusal, solidarity, and organised economic withdrawal.
👉 Subscribe for fearless, independent conversations: https://www.youtube.com/@UCT4kJCZyg26egbPAuJVj2kA
🎧 Listen wherever you get your podcasts.
#TheTeaWithMyriamFrancois #JameelaJamil #Patriarchy #Feminism #GenderPolitics #Capitalism #BeautyIndustry #Ageing #War #WomenEmpowerment #SocialJustice #Inequality #UKPolitics #USPolitics #EpsteinCase #Manosphere
Check out Love Welcomes, a social enterprise creating dignified, fairly paid work for refugee women rebuilding their lives. For 10% discount, enter THETEA10 at checkout!
🔗 https://www.lovewelcomes.org/?ref=MYRIAMFRANCOIS
Myriam Francois is wearing a Christmas jumper provided by Solidarity Sleigh: www.solidaritysleigh.com : 100% profits from these jumpers go directly to PAL Commission for War Crimes, Justice, Reparations & Return — one of the oldest Palestinian-led advocacy institutions in exile. They serve not only to secure accountability but full Palestinian rights, including getting land back. You can learn more about PAL Commission at: www.palcommission.com
AUDIO CREDITS
Presenter–Producer: Dr. Myriam François
Guest: Jameela Jamil
Senior Producer: Sara Farolfi
Producer: Nadège Bizimungu
Assistant Producer: Poppy Jacobs
Video Editor: Max Bubnov
An MPWR Productions show.
https://www.patreon.com/TheTeawithMyriamFrancois?utm_medium=unknown&utm_source=join_link&utm_campaign=creatorshare_creator&utm_content=copyLink&fbclid=PAZXh0bgNhZW0CMTEAAabkrbubUPKErSGVFGL5bzjQytkb9HanzeLQBUi8U-mU6g5aVSTqE5ej7sQ_aem_SO9ihK10zUz3TdyPOD2ngA
00:01:01 A global retreat – Authoritarianism and the rollback of rights
00:03:15 Choosing peace – Leaving Hollywood to find emotional fulfillment
00:08:41 Hate as a weapon – How politicians distract the working class
00:12:02 Re-humanizing Palestine – Restoring dignity and celebrating culture
00:17:35 Taking power back – Consumer boycotts vs. traditional protest
00:19:12 The AI crisis – Compliant robots and the manosphere
00:23:32 Submission vs. rebellion – Why patriarchy fears feminine energy
00:35:11 The "Trad-Wife" trap – Financial independence and household safety
00:45:09 The beauty standard – Mutilation, the "pedophile lens," and Botox
01:00:50 Reclaiming age – Resisting the erasure of older women
01:10:26 The soul of art – AI actors, human connection, and voting with your pound
01:13:06 Outro – Becoming an "unruly old bitch" and final reflections
'The Thumbnail image is AI generated'
Disclaimer:
The views and opinions expressed by the guest(s) on The Tea YouTube series and podcast are their own and do not reflect those of MPWR Productions or its licensees. The appearance of this YouTube programme and podcast on social media platforms does not imply endorsement by MPWR Productions. MPWR Productions disclaims any liability for damages arising from the use of the podcast and its recordings to the fullest extent permissible by law.
This video is intended for informational and commentary purposes only and reflects the personal opinions of the guest and creators. The inclusion of public figures or journalists is based on publicly available information and does not imply guilt or wrongdoing.
The views in this video do not establish a professional relationship with viewers and do not constitute legal, professional, or personal advice. Viewer discretion is advised.
